I made a crazy (but well-thought out) decision to move across the country from Boston to San Francisco. The scariest part? Between when I made the decision and when I started working at my new job, I had three and a half weeks to completely move.
So you’ve made the decision to move across the country—now what?
You have three options with all your stuff: sell, ship, or move. Different options appeal to different people based on how far you’re going, what you currently own, and how fast you have to be there. Price out different options and see what works best for your needs.
I ended up selling most of my bigger furniture and then will eventually ship the rest of my stuff. Selling furniture can be difficult (especially mattresses) and you may have to discount it more than you had hoped. If you can’t sell something, just put it on Craigslist for free. People will pick up most things.
Start packing as soon as you can. You’re going to want to spend your last days seeing people and doing fun things, not packing up your stuff.
Where you’ll live
This was by far the most complicated and scariest part to figure out in such a short time. If you want to, and can afford to, live alone, using resources like Apartments, Craigslist, and if you can, a realtor, make the finding of a place much easier.
If you’re just starting out your career or want to live with others, Craigslist is likely the easiest way to find a room in another apartment which you can join. Also, reach out to everyone you might know via every way possible (social networks, old and new co-workers, friends, family, etc.) to see who might know someone who needs a roommate.
Another solution is to try to find a short-term option, such as a sublease or Airbnb, to get you to your destination, but not stuck in a long-term lease. Luck ended up coming through for me—a friend of my Boston roommate’s was taking six weeks to come home, so I ended up taking her room in San Francisco. You never know who might be of help!
You may also have to figure out how to get out of your current lease. This will differ for every situation, but try to be as helpful as possible in the process. If you live with roommates, compile the images and write the copy for the ad they’ll use to show your room. When they are setting up appointments and picking the roommate, try to be as helpful as possible in the process, especially if you’re making a quick move.
Your new job
Determine what the cost of living will be like in your new location and adjust your salary requirements based on what you know. Depending on the position, consider asking for relocation benefits if salary isn’t quite where you want it to be.
Learn what you can about your new job ahead of time, especially where people live or what your commute will be like from different areas. Also, find out what the dress code is. This will help determine what gets packed and brought with you right away. You don’t want to only pack jeans and t-shirts to have with you right away when you have to dress in business formal for work.
If you have any upcoming vacations, try to mention those as early as possible in the offer conversation, in case you don’t qualify for PTO for a few months. Many companies are understanding and will allow you to take unpaid vacation time if it doesn’t follow within their guidelines, but it is always best to ask.
Your new life
Building connections and a new group of friends in your new location is the most nerve wracking, but also the most exciting part of a big move. Some of the resources that have been really helpful for me:
- See if there’s a Local Levo chapter where you’re going
- Use Facebook’s Graph Search to see who you know that lives in the area
- Post on Facebook to see if anyone you know knows people there. Often friends of friends are people similar with whom you would enjoy spending time
- See if there is any alumni activity from your alma mater in your new area for networking or other events you could attend
- Consider meetups, sports clubs, or other leisure activities to meet new people
Do you have any upcoming plans you have to change? I had flights booked for a vacation in a few months that needed to be changed and concert tickets to sell to someone else.
As with any move, remember to change your magazine and Birchbox subscriptions, and forward your mail. Try to see your doctors if you can; no one wants to take time off after just starting a new gig to go to lots of appointments.
Do you have any other tips for making a quick move? Share them with us in the comments!
Ask Levo Mentor Rachel Millner, Director of Public Relations for Wired Magazine, her tips for making the move across the country!